Their chat. Their patterns. No filter.
Drop a WhatsApp chat. In 90 seconds get a psychological read — attachment style, hidden power moves, what they think of you — with dated quotes as proof.
Avoidant attachment. "k." = withdrawal, not anger.
Grounded in 4 dated quotes · ECR-R + Gottman markers
Two dimensions visible. Forty more waiting. Every claim is grounded in a dated quote from the conversation.
"still thinking about last friday 🌙" (2024-03-14)
median 47 min · you 12 min, them 3h 20m
WhatsApp → chat menu → Export chat, without media. Or Telegram/Instagram DM export.
Drag & drop the .zip or .txt. Max 50MB. No account needed for the free preview.
~90 sec for standard reports. Up to 3 min for very long chats (Deep Mode auto-on).
Export where the conversation already lives. Drop the file, we do the rest. Nothing leaves your device until you press Analyze.
Your data stays yours — exports are processed once and deleted within 24h.
1-sentence verdict, status badge, confidence score, 3 key insights.
Verbosity, lexical richness, questions, disclosure depth and humor per side.
Warmth, validation, empathy accuracy, affect range and emotional labor.
Perception-gap scores for both of you, with dated evidence for each side.
Gottman Four Horsemen, Magic Ratio, bids for connection, repair attempts.
Bartholomew attachment pairing + Big Five, HEXACO, ECR-R, Dark Triad, IPIP-NEO.
Escalation speed, repair success, grudge carry, apology quality, incident log.
6-month projection across best / most-likely / worst scenarios.
5 concrete scripts to repair — or an exit-conversation script.
Coercive-control and crisis markers with resources when thresholds are hit.
The report adapts to the relationship: intimacy dimensions unlock only for romantic chats, power dynamics for work, boundary and enmeshment markers for family.
Every dimension is scored for both participants — with dated evidence for each. See the perception gap: how you saw them vs. how they saw you.
Every claim is grounded in a dated quote from your chat. No vibes. No horoscope.
Instrumented with Gottman, Bartholomew attachment, Big Five, HEXACO, ECR-R, IPIP-NEO, cognitive distortions and reciprocity metrics. Contradictions caught by a self-consistency validator + critic pass.
A real anonymized 8-month chat, decoded across all 9 modules.
Open sample reportBase reports
One full Chat X-Ray — 42 dimensions across 9 modules, including a Sexuality layer that activates automatically for romantic chats.
3 full reports. How They See Me is included on each one.
Add-ons — unlock after a base report
The perception gap — how they actually experience you versus how you think they do.
Requires a Single Report or one report from a Triple Pack
Optional symbolic mirror over the same patterns — astrology, numerology, archetypes and ritual.
Requires any Single Report or a report from a Triple Pack
Your chat is processed encrypted, never stored, deleted within 24h.
GDPR + CCPA compliant. Not a substitute for therapy. In crisis? See resources.